Step out from his emotional crazed rollercoaster, this man has shown nothing but contempt and anger. You are right, this isn't the man you married, I lost the man I married to, those men will never come back.
Look at him as one looks at a weird specimen, he has become one vile man who is jerking you around one day and being half decent the next. Do not hang on to everything he says, don't get your expectations sky high when he shows a nice gesture (jewelry for xmas). Take EVERY thing with a grain of salt.
This man needs a good therapist and lots of help, in the meantime, shorten the amount you talk to him, he is so toxic he is tearing you down, dont' let it happen, no decent man would do to you what he is doing now.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.