If a poster interests you it is your best interest to check them out. It is also something that wil kill sometime for you, instead of all your problems going round your head, you can check up on some other people.
I could tell you, but to be honest my situation is not your situation, what I did and what happened will more than likely not be what you do or what happens to you.
It is a mistake to involve your children earlier in this. You should be sheilding them from as much of this as you can, and you should not be recruting them as allies. Whatever you do do not talk badly about your W to them...EVER. Let them make up their own minds down the road, they will respect you more.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
