Questions abound with new people here.
Our advice is based off of our experience, realize that first and foremost, ok?
All of us here realize that working on ourself is primary, it doesn't seem that way at first, but that is the truth.

In my case, I told her that I would not help her with a divorce, because I did not want to be divorced.

PS - do not use names here.
Do not tell her about this board either. This is YOUR safe area. She will not be impressed by it.

Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 12/18/07 08:42 PM.

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