Sara -

I'm not at all satisfied with things at home. But the next move is hers to make.

She works and makes a decent buck. She also knows that her standard of living will go down about 3 notches if we were to split.

She has said over and over, "it's not about money!!" But I know women better than that. One of their top priorities is financial security for themselves and their children. She will have it with me. Without me? Not so much. She will be OK, but not good.

If she really wanted to divorce me, it would have been done already.


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9