OK, good. Still, they say worse than hate is indifference. So you should not be satisfied with a state of indifference either. I know your wife says she is done and she is ending the marriage. But the truth is being a wife is what she does for a living. She needs the income you provide, and she is smart enough to know it. So she is not going anywhere fast, and in fact, may not ever go anywhere. I still think working on the dynamic between the two of you would be a good idea.