Solitary Man

[Ohio_Mark]

I thought Saffie was going to bed....

[LL44]

She can't let us go.

[Yoyowife]

Shrek? OMG, what was she thinking? Ummm...is there something we don't know about him? Is he rich and close to death like Saffie likes 'em? I just don't see the attraction!

I noticed in the pic, the woman on the other side looks like she is trying to get away from him, very smart lady!

[Ohio_Mark]

Yoyo -

I keep tellin' ya. He listens.

And when she sees that I posted that pic, she's gonna kill me...

[Rob1231]

And when she sees that I posted that pic, she's gonna kill me...

So, is that why you posted it?

[fightingirish]

mark,

Wow.. lots has happend.. Sorry I wasn't here to listen... Ive had a migraine for 3 days...

Cute doggie.. and your kids are just so cute.. and she is a very stupid to let you go:)

Im glad that you decided to let it be. Sometimes it takes more energy to fight then to just leave things alone.. don't give her anymore of your energy, just try and maintain a positive outlook. Weather the storm.. like I know you have doing.. You will be ok with or without her. Your a strong person..

Thinking of you.

(((hugs)))

tal

[Ohio_Mark]

And when she sees that I posted that pic, she's gonna kill me...

So, is that why you posted it?

I have no suicidal tendencies.

However, she has told me that she fears that I am going to kill her.

But we all know, it's just a sign that cheating spouses cannot outrun guilt.

[saffie]

Does she read these boards?

[Sara]

Mark,

Those are really bad comments. You need to find a way to call a truce in the family. It's not war. You and she may no longer be lovers, but there is no reason you can't be friends. You need to find a way to be friends with her. Maybe not her best friend, as she won't allow that, but at least someone she does not fear. A person she feels safe with. That is a good thing to do at Christmastime.

My kids used to get angry at each other for wrongs that one committed against the other. And I had to admit, they were wrongs, not misunderstandings. But it didn't matter, we could not have a war within the family. I would force them to make up with each other and declare themselves friends. The anger would get forgotten after that and life went on.

[Ohio_Mark]

Does she read these boards?

About three months ago, I was at home on the compter, and she looked over my shoulder and saw the DB banner at the top. At the time, I was snooping, and I saw that she had later visited the website, but did not come to this board. I sincerely believe that she thought I was a casual visitor, and not a "poster."

I am not concerned. She is not going to find me here.