Hi Jen1967, and I believe she knows that there is still an open door. In one of my last messages after the last fight I basically told her that she can do what she wants and I'm not going to interfere with how she wants to live her life although she also knows that we would both have to make changes. She knows what my complaints are and I know what hers are. I did not get a response to that message and that was the last contact that I've made with her. Went dark after that