All Hope is lost/Help - Part 2

[Jen_Jam]

Just a quick 2p's worth - you are sympathising with him. Don't. He made his bed, it's up to him to get himself out of it again!

i used to sympathise with my H, then I got fed up and realised he progressed much quicker when I turned to him and said "i hear you, what do you think YOU are going to do to get YOURSELF out of it?" no offer to help, no sympathies, no "i am here if you need me" cos I wasn't there - I was out having fun. I let him sit in his wet nappy all by himself.

OK - rant over, sorry if it's short and missing the point, have to dash off in 2 mins