Advice regarding counseling

[Michael Mc C]

I suggested Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

I just read this book. I never had a desire to read it until my neighbor brought it to me. There's something about the title that always put me off. However I learned so much about the way I communicate and the way my wife communicates, I was just amazed. I would love for my wife to read this one.

Ask the therapist in front of her, "What can I do to learn to love my wife the way she needs to be loved?" That might blow her away to make it about your shortcomings and not hers.

I agree this may shock her. Especially since there's nothing in there implying that I want my W convinced of anything. I wonder though if she would just think that its more of the same pursuing and attempted persuasion from the past.