I have to run out for a couple of hours. So more later. But for now, GOOD JOB!!! Gosh, I hate to sound like Dr. Phil here, but "you can't fix what you don't acknowledge!" I feel like you're at least LISTENING now.
I'll leave you with this, for now: each step that you're about to go thru will be the most counter-intuitive thing you've ever done in your life up until now. If she's angry... GOOD! If she's happy .... BAD! (that means she's just been with OM, and she's being "fed", either emotionally or physically).
Stay upbeat, but not annoyingly so. Just positive, and loving, and STRONG. Oh, and as NOP would say, "look good and smell good."
And just her ACTIONS, not her WORDS. Her words mean NOTHING at this point, ok? ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
