Does she know you have an open door for talk and that when she's ready you are willing to listen? I had been doing LRT too and nothing was changing. I think he thought I didn't care. Then I made it clear what I was doing, purposely giving him space. And I let him know he has the ball in his court, the door is open. Now he is initiating talk. Wow. So, I say, if what you're doing doesn't seem to be changing anything, I don't see where it would hurt to come out of the isolated box a little and show her you care. Not pursuing, just let her know you care, like a friend. You could send a card or call to say Merry Christmas.
Me 41 H 47 D9 S3 M 16 yrs WAH Sep 07 PA Aug 07 12/07 Admitted A 1/08 C 1/15 H needs me 5/7/08 came home 7/08 We moved to MD 10/08 M bad again 11/24/08 fled to GA(OW),filed D 12/8/08 Back in MD 12/23/08 I countered 12/29/08 path back?
