well, I've been sick. I haven't had a voice in about 4 days. All sunday I stayed in bed and slept.
Some things have changed, some things have not. LIke H still goes grocery shopping and comes home with no food that anyone else really likes. No milk, cheese, bread, butter.... just frozen sh!t or premade crap. I'm sick and he bought soup- but no chicken noodle. How's that for thinking??????
So tonight I"m going grocery shopping.
He took S shopping for pants since S has grown and doesn't have much that fits. I gave him $50 and he bought S 2 pairs of pants. That's it. 2 pair. I took D shopping for clothes the next night and she got 4 pairs of pants, 2 shirts and one sweater. I mean really- 2 pair????
He did laundry and piled it in the chair. No folding. Just dumping. So now I have to iron my jeans and my shirts.
In all honesty- he still thinks he's helping and doing a good job and he can't understand why I now have to go shopping or don't appreciate what he has done.
He still does not get it. He says he wants to help and feels like with all that I work, he should be doing more-- and he should-- I just wish he would do it with quality and care instead of half assed.
When life gives you lemons, trade them for limes and break out the tequila!!-- Soxfan2007
7/1/05 Bomb 7/20/05 H moves out 2.5 years of Rollercoaster 10/30/07 H moves back home
