Ummm, do you want to have a Restraining Order issued against you.
Look, the OM or OW in almost every case knows what they are doing is wrong. In yours? If it goes physical? Deffinately. Do you think you are going to wise him up, wake up his morality?
He already has morals. He already knows right from wrong, lets hope he does right, but nothing you are going to say to him will help him choose, in fact...you could help him choose wrong.
Anytime you attack the OM, you make her defend the OM. Listen the voice of experience here. OR find out for yourself it is a painful lesson. Are you the type who needs to burn his hand on the stove to find out it is hot, or did you listen to your parents?
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But I promised it was the only time and that I would not do it again.
Well buddy now you have to live up to that or you are a liar, if she finds out you couldn't.
Do not make promises right now. At the worst, promise to do your best not to do something.
Be strong Patrick. This trip sucks.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK