You did good getting him into the sack, but you didn't have any follow through. Now if I were him I would have taken the hint and reciprocated right away, but it seems he needs more prompting. It seems like he wants you to pursue him. If you would have continued with your attempt at love making then you wouldn't have had the conversation and would have gotten a good nights sleep. You put to much thought into it once you got into bed. He was tired, he was sick, he didn't want to, these are all assumptions on your part and caused you to hold back. It doesn't sound like you have to worry about being shot down by your H, so maybe try being more aggressive in your attempt next time.
Also, it sounds like he needs a book on foreplay...
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
