How long have you been separated? If it's recent, don't let this holiday effect how you proceed. Remember that WAS are often so angry, and so hurt that they do really hurtful things, like not call on Christmas. How was she last time she talked to you? Still angry, cooling off a little, blaming you for everything? Would it hurt or hurt for you to call just that day to say Merry Christmas? No more, no less than that. She might be looking for an open door...
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
