I wanted to add that my situation is not really a failure of divorce busting techniques, because I never applied them very diligently. I did get a life, and I did detach, but I was never able to act as if all was well. Nor was I able to make each interaction with my wife a pleasant one. I'm just not that good at pretending, lying and hiding how I feel.

So fear not, maybe Divorce Busting will work for you.

"Now some kind of man, he can't do anything wrong. If I see him I'll tell him you're waiting." ---Lowell George