Still hopeful for some pleasant surprises

[Trixi]

SPM,
I think Balto's point is that there is a chance that you have put your legal standing/leverage in jeopardy. An attorney can let you know for sure.
Just because you drew a line in the sand doesn't mean that you are on the best side of the line; it should be the other way around- SHE gets out so SHE can continue with her choices. SHE is inconvenienced.

Anyway, it's a moot point now. I think the most important thing is to protect yourself legally- and that might include moving back in. The longer you are out, the greater the precedent set- maybe you can just make a quick phone call to one to confirm you aren't negatively impacting your position.