Bomb... just leave things as they are. Don't call any "truce" or anything like that. You've told her how you feel; leave it at that. You don't need to "discuss" things to death, but don't backpedal either. Let her stew. You're in a bad place right now, and there's no way of making it better all on your own.

Will you please go back and reread NOP's and choc's posts to you on this thread?



Originally Posted By: Bomb
She's refusing to admit that her relationship is more than just friends, but I've planted the seed of doubt and now she's probably feeling some guilt.


I don't understand ONE WORD of this. "Seed of doubt" about WHAT? You can bet she's feeling guilty-- so don't rescue her from this. Guilt is the consequence of her behavior. She needs to experience it. Don't give her reason to put the focus back on YOU.