I'm confused. I remembered your exclaiming how she had given you a kiss goodbye one morning, and how it was followed by exclamation marks. You explained:
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The dozen exclamation marks signify the 12 months that have gone by since the last time she gave me a kiss goodbye.
and from the most recent post:
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As I left for work this morning, she said goodbye, but she said "I really don't feel like giving you a kiss." Okay, I said.
So, a few days ago she started giving you kisses goodbye, and now she withdraws these valuable crumbs? You might have said, "Feeling's mutual."
Who knows WTF is going on with her, except for the fact that she is playing you like a fiddle. I'm really torn on this one. Should you "go dark", or "fight" for the marriage? This is a question for which you will have to search for your own answer.
And, BTW, are you sure she truly knows how you feel? How do you feel? Do you want her to cut off this relationship with your former best friend? Do you want her to stop meeting your dentist? I don't think you should assume that she KNOWS how YOU FEEL. It doesn't sound to me like you're giving her much guidance on that.
