I missed a lot of what was said in the last day or so...but oh yea, I feel she's doing the rebellion thing and trying to get a reaction out of you, other than what you're giving her. "I'm going out for dinner with our dentist friend.....I really don't feel like giving you a kiss".... Come on!
As far as calling a truce....WTF? Why would you really want to do this? What have you done that really warrants calling a truce? From what I've read on here, you've been firm but gentle. You planted a seed in her mind that what she is doing is wrong. Wrong for your boundaries, wrong for your marriage. You've pretty much dealt with one of the hardest tasks...exposing whatever it is they had going on. It's early, you feel like sh!t, you've brought things to the front burner...let it simmer. By calling a truce, basically what you're doing is putting this pot on the back burner and for you and her to work this out, you're eventually going to have to re-open the lid on that pot and turn the heat up again.
You ever go fishing Bomber?.....Use night crawlers? Bomber, you've already opened a can of worms....best to deal with it now because the longer them worms stay in the can and you keep putting the lid on them...they begin to stink
Christmas with 2 new grandkids...GREAAAT!!! Enjoy them, use them to take your mind off things...it's ok...really. Keep it up, stay the course...you're doing fine.
