We went to a MC though at the time I was clueless about his OW...he just was unhappy... He faked 8 sessions and finally the MC said this was not a marriage problem this was an H problem. She met with him one last time and he said she told him to just D - WOW! Even H was not 100% sure and I researched C's to find her - knew someone who used her. This MC said she was PRO -Marriage - yeah right.

Someone on the boards suggested calling the DB number and ask them to recommend a C - I would be sure to find one that is coginitive based. You need fixes right away NOT an over analysis of your childhood traumas...

Good Luck!!

HB

Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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