[quote=Startingover2 On the other hand, I don't want to punish the R with my baby and H even though he doesn't deserve it either.... [/quote]

I meant I don't want to punish the baby because of my R with H. Sorry, that was a mental meltdown!

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!