thank you mandyloo) your "babbling" is helpful. it helps to get unstuck by entertaining different perspectives. my h is involved w/kids and shows his care about them (calls them, sees them, gifts, etc.) it's our marriage/realtionship he doesn't care about.
one of my struggles is to know what suits me best. for so many years i was putting everybody else needs first, then my parents and my h were very critical of me so i doubt myself a lot. my other challenge is to discern if what i want is just for immediate gratification and what consequences are.
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1
