I agree with frank Jeff. It could have been an OM that she chose to do this with. She DID choose you. Positives...NOT in that early DB 'babysteps' thang...but in moving towards a better R for the future.

Quote:
better to have a good R with xW than a bad one. I owe that to my kids and the woman I once shared my love with.

Now THERE is a "BetterMan". You're setting the bar high for me.

Frank

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;