Wow. That is pretty gutsy of someone to be doing something soo childish. Texting another women while helping his wife at home. Thats not right at all. Sorry to hear that he is soo mean, especially when you're already down.
My wife has been doing the samething where she says mean things. Ok Im already kicked down because she wants a divorce and being mean on top of it? Seriously is there any kind of compassion between people that are "supposed" to love each other? Sometimes I dont get life.
I just want to let you know that I feel your pain and I know exactly how you feel. I am here in the same boat. I know if we all help each other we'll somehow make it. I promise. Just know that what you're doing is for the better. You're not texting and saying mean things. You're the better person. You'll thank yourself someday for doing the right thing.
Hang in there!
Married to wife 4.5yrs 1 step daughter - 7yrs old - Love her to death Seperated 10/28 - Present