I thank you all for your replies, we are settling into our new home quite nicely now, we even have a new christmas tree for the new home. No contact from ex, and I don't think there will be any, I can't believe he doesn't want to know where his son is living, it sure does change a person it the mlc that is has changed this man one hundred percent. he and his new wifey have been seen at the old place, not sure what for because I left it clean and ther isn't anything to move, maybe they are checking that we have gone, or he can't believe we have, I don't know and I aren't bothered, but I think they have balls of steel to be seen coming out of the place together in front of the neighbours n all, after what they have done I would have thought they especially him would have hung their heads in shame and not be seen in daylight hours round the old place.
Mandyloo, people like that have no balls, honor, or character. Best thing for you to do is put it all behind you.
