I've think I've been at a kind of similar point to you past few weeks. Contact with W has been positive, but I have to initiate it. You think great, things are looking up, but you hear nothing which sends you down, then you initiate again and its positive.
Way I'm attacking it at the moment is this; this is flirting, old R is dead, I'm looking to start a new R, which means starting at square 1, so your flirting for a new R. If I'm feeling down or thinking about the old R I don't call its a sign to focus on me and do some GAL. But if I'm feeling a bit bouncy I'll call, be totally prepared for a rejection, and try something.
Nothing spectacular has happen so far, but feel things are creeping in a positive direction.
