The draw back is that H really doesn't get the chance to miss us.
I agree with this. I'm hoping in a couple months when the real schedule kicks in that H will realize what he's missing out on with the kids.
I just hope it makes a difference to him because right now it doesn't. J~
i worry if things are too easy and comfortable they will never feel the consequences of their actions and I will never be able to fully go on. On the other hand, I don't want to punish the R with my baby and H even though he doesn't deserve it either....
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!