Wow, I love that you bounced back so quickly. I'll be coming to you for bounce back advice from now on!!
And yes, sometimes we have to sit back and watch. If you got involved right now, did some persuing, it wouldn't be good.
I still am beyond amazed OM walked around your kids birthday party...without any kids there!!!! And now she shows off gifts from him. Coworkers want to know where her pod is parked as well..