I don't know if I should continue to DB.

[forward]

H and I had an argument today (well, he tried to make it into more of an argument than I wanted it to be). Mentioned D again and said that half the house is his, he was going to go for it, etc.. I said OK, let me know.

H is still angry that I will not let him back in here to watch D2 instead of at his apartment. Left here angry.

This evening H was fairly nice again.

DB C suggests that when H comes over, I stop hanging around them and start doing things for myself. I am working towards friendship w/H (stage 2 in reconciliation) but we still see each other too much. Need to be in a position where I am not so continually disappointed/resentful. If H gives me a bit of a break I can be less angry.

So instead of doing housework when H is over, I am going to do something relaxing instead.