I had to track you down like the dog you are but I am really glad I did. I have been reading what both you Whatisis have been through and your thoughts. I think Whatisis is not only giving really good advice but is also living very much in the real world. Sometimes I think we all wish that our world wasn't so real but What is is, right?
Anyway, You seem like a really good guy not to mention your big heart. I think that maybe your wife coming into your room after all this time is her filling a need in her. What that is she may not even know, but you have to admit, she does seem to be moving in the right direction.
Wii is so right about the fact that you could get to the point where showing up to cuddle may get old and unless you have some answers that just won't cut it. You have a right to ask questions that warrant direct answers and unless you are direct what do you really have? Just giving you food for thought. For the longest time my ex held me hostage because I was afraid of what those answers would be. I can tell you first hand that the truth may be hard to take at first but it is also very empowering. Seeing that none of us can tell you what you need to do for you I hope that things work out however you wish them to.
Oh by the way, I've been coming up with possible titles for that book collaboration. So think about it. This could be big. I mean the advice that we have to give would be life changing or it could just plain suck. Of course that would depend on how smart our read were!
