No, I knew you were a woman. I've seen your posts here and there before, but never knew your story. I liked how you said the reason for the A (or any betrayal, I'd say) is important to the turnout of the M. A loss of love can be regained. But to get to a point of true dislike for a person and contempt for a person, that is a marital kiss of death. I'm happy to say I still like my H, even love my H, even if the "in love" feelings are not quite there. It sounds like you have had your own rocky road towards forgiveness. But I hope things continue to work out for you.
