Thanks for taking the time to respond with some good constructive advice.
I have allowed myself to be drawn back in and you know what life was nice without her drama. Your exactly right about the all talk no action, boy does she have a game plan for our reconciliaton, but I have yet to see one step in that direction.
I'm going to follow through with the holidays, we made these plans already and it would be better for S anyhow. At the new year, if there are no steps being taken in her plan, then my plan goes into place and I push the D along, and get her out of my life.
So she is back in my life, hmmm, why? I wonder, oh OM left, her sister and mother are fully pissed off at her. Outside of her friends, who also have jobs, kids, school, she needs to constantly be around someone. She is full of $hit and is feeding me lines, so that she can keep her H while see searches for greener pastures. So it is time to remove the safety net. Thats my not so PC point of view.
