Wow Saffie, that is just the example that I thought didn't exist. You proved me wrong. I'm really happy it worked out for you and H. Still think it's a rare feat though. I don't know if I could do it myself. But maybe I could. I am trying to manage my own mess after H and I separated (his choice) and then reconciled. But I'm still not in a good place mentally. Can't quite get to a level of acceptance and complete commitment. I should look into your story more and see how you did it.
