You were all right...unfortunately...

[saffie]

Just for the record I want to say that I am female and I made the child comparison earlier here. From what B50 has posted I stand by my earlier comments too - I believe she is acting like a child and her actions since my post corroborate that I feel.

Also, I went VERY public when I found out about my H's A and fought tooth and nail - I believe that's what saved my M. 18 months on from revelation we are doing good. H totally recommitted - wedding vows renewed,( just by the two of us and our kids in church as I didn't feel M'd after the A).

My H has been fantastic since it was all revealed and our M is SO different now.
It has been hard work to keep up with friends etc after the revelation but that has been for me not H. I felt so betrayed I thought I would never trust again. It was me that started rejecting H not the other way around. If friends are true friends they will listen and support and not get involved.