I am not doing very well in my own situation so i can't realy give advice but i am sure someone will give you some on this. I know its hard to get in the Christmas mood I hear you but your kids do need it. Have fun decorating it does help \:\)

Married 13 years
Me: 43
W: 39
D-19
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S-25

Wake me up Bomb: July 1 2007

Wife Ring off: Jan 8 2008

-Time Is my Friend?
-Put your Trust in God!
-Pray lots! <------<<<