"Bombardier believes that if he went to counselling, that the counsellor would tell him things to fix about himself. he isnt willing to fix himself, so he isnt willing to go to counselling".
My reading was that he was talking about MC here, not IC.
Originally Posted By: Dom R
ICs and MCs rarely mix well together.
On what basis do you make that statement?
Originally Posted By: Dom R
they usually work directly against each other. i suggest you focus on finding a good MC.
A good MC won't accomplish much unless both parties are open to the counseling. If one is trying to fix the other, or if one really doesn't care about the M because they're involved with another person, there's little opportunity for progress.
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