All, I am very ambivalent to go to counseling, for all the reasons stated above. I know what she's after in counseling, and her goal is to fix me.
What that says to me, is:
"Bombardier believes that if he went to counselling, that the counsellor would tell him things to fix about himself. he isnt willing to fix himself, so he isnt willing to go to counselling".
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Unfortunately, I'm in a position where if I say no to MC, she'll use that as evidence for me not wanting to repair the M. So yes, I agree that the best approach now is to approach MC individually, and if the counselor is any good, that's how we'll start off anyway.
i disagree there, also.
ICs and MCs rarely mix well together.
they usually work directly against each other. i suggest you focus on finding a good MC.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
