Your biggest challenge as I see it is not to figure out how to deal with you W, but to be on constant vigil. Rest assured you will be tempted and tested. .... Be always ready, always strong, always faithful. The more progress you make, the more the evil side will step up the game. Right now they seem to be lurking, but they are only waiting for that opportunity when you are weak. Be ever vigilant by brother, you will be tested.
Your W will be tested also. Pray for her.
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W showed up late this morning & in horrible mood.
When you are a man, then HER mood will not affect YOUR mood. This morning was ALL about her and none about you. You needn't cowar, explain, or defend, just be a man. Strong, faithful, and confident. The sh?t kicken, fearless, warrior that you are. Nothing she does will harm you, or phase you because you are a MAN!
Your W's friends will bury themselves. Allow her to be hurt by them. Nothing they have to offer will create fulfillment and joy for her, that's YOUR job. If she goes places without you, just know with confidence, there isn't another man on this planet that can measure up to you. She may be looking, but she won't be finding. All the BS that Hollywood has to offer, all those friends of hers, they're all fake, liars, and cheaters. She'll see through them don't you worry. She's learning too, and maybe she needs a little hard lesson to really understand the reality of what's good in life. She may have gotten that this morning.
So you just sail YOUR ship my brother. Tall and proud, fearless and faithful. Let nothing or nobody rob you of the joy and fulfillment that is the reality you create. The evil one is testing you my brother. he'll use the nastiest of tactics to pull you off your game, make you stumble, rock your boat. Stay the course, pray your butt off, and embrace the struggle.
You are a warrior!!!
God Bless,
COG
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