I don't think that'll do any good because it would point out to her exactly how selfish her actions and decisions have been and how those actions and decisions have hurt the people that love her and she loves the most.
What she needs to hear is from our girls how they feel. I know for a fact my wife has been pondering and questioning her decision and its impact on our girls, our families and friends.(Don't ask how I know but I know it as absolute fact.) She's been wondering if she made the right decision and if she should have done something different or accepted more of the negative, ie have greater fortitude. She's also wondering if she's put her happiness too far ahead of her children's.
Bottom line here is I know she's thinking on all of these subjects so I have to be careful not to push her in any way. Unfortunately Friday's events and my subsequent conversation with her about it didn't help, in fact it push her back.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
