Just checking in on your sitch. The X-mas gift is a touchy subject. I want to get my H something, at least from my D4. Happy to hear you appreciated it.
I don't know what I will end up getting him but I am sure it will be something "Dad like". Also I got him a card and I felt weird cause its a generic "Seasons Greetings" as they didn't have any that really fit our situation. I did laugh as they have cards for people having affairs but not for us separated/ almost divorced folkd.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
