I just had a quick question for you. How do you handle your H coming to visit your kids? I mean do you have some sort of schedule or does he just come and go when it pleases him? The reason I ask is I am trying to figure this out. I don't want to keep him from our daughter, but honestly I don't want my house being a revolving door for when H feels like being a dad. I just feel like I will never be able to move on and have a life of my own. A friend of mine is dealing with the same issue...her husband left her at 5 months pregnant, she had the child now and he just drops over when convenient and then leaves and is carousing around with all kinds of women.
How do you handle your situation emotionally with visitation?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
