Like what? A quick peck on the lips and a wink? Be flirty? what? I know, I'm pathetic.
If you are "flirty" you are moving from bunny towards monkey. A wink is definitely a monkey gesture. A "quick peck" to me sounds more maternal (maybe your cow is a mother hen -lol). I recommend a sweet kiss and then tilt your head to the side and smile or whatever you might do naturally if some giant confident man stared/smiled down at you and said "You are prettier than a basket of speckled puppies." and petted your hair. You aren't pathetic. It is dead hard to do your part of the dance mostly solo, especially if it's been a long time since you've been out on the floor. It's so easy to fall into a casual androgyny in a modern relationship and it's not a bad thing generally but I think there has to be some sort of segue where the Baby X Overalls come off and some sexier costumes are donned before sexual tension can be created. What I am basically suggesting when I say you should put on your bunny costume before you put on your monkey costume is that you should signal "girl" before you signal "sex" or to give some specific examples, you would signal "school-girl" before you signaled "naughty or "librarian" before you signaled "sexy".
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