"Jeff, our dentist." Hmm, shouldn't you have said, "you mean Jeff, my former dentist?"

Sorry LFL, but yeah, she's acting like a child. It really is the behavior, not the gender. I'd be just as quick to condemn a man of the same thing, if he were behaving similarly.

I can't recall your situation with regard to kids, bomber, but if you don't have kids at home, I'd be so tempted to spend some time doing something productive, like working out, or helping a friend, so that you're not home when she gets home. I'm not talking about going to a bar or anything like that...just doing something for yourself so you're not "waiting" when she gets home.

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