We seem to be losing sight of the issue that Ann lost interest in sex with her H (remember, she was the one who wanted it all the time before the EA, him, not so much. He only got hot and bothered AFTER the EA on Ann's part -- which came after he wanted a D) after he decided to D and then not do much around the house/help with kids. I just had a thought, that maybe, Ann, he's actually trying to reconnect with you physically because that's what you used to want from him, and he's not doing it only out of insecurity. Just a thought.
That Ann's H was able to rub her temples and allow her to fall asleep and allow her to sleep on his chest without jumping her and getting too pissy if she said no is a reasonably big step for him, it seems. She's been initiating a little more nookie recently, she's under no obligation to spread 'em whenever he feels like it -- hello, resentment.
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Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
