Here Again What To Do?

[Michael Mc C]

I know what I am going to be losing if I do stay with H, and its much more that any of you can ever understand.

Hey RC. What is it that you feel you would be missing or losing if you stay with your H? I'm curious because my W has given me the impression that she will be giving up much more by ending her involvement with OM than she would be if she stayed with him. From my perspective I cannot see how the benefits of a POSSIBLE life with OM could outweigh the importance of trying to make a marriage work, especially one involving 3 children. I admit, however, that I don't fully understand what has gotten us here but I have been able to piece some things together.