I agree..the blaming seems to be a very common theme w/ these WAS.
As long as they can blame the LBSrs, they dont have to own up to their own faults. They will continue this same format w/ all other R. So, I have concluded especially after H tells me he sistill so very unhappy w/OW (and it shows) that until they figure this out themselves..they will continue in the same path of unhapiness. It is not our R to help w/ their search of happiness.