It sounds great in theory but I have no idea of the practicality. Since you left, it may be hard to convince a judge that you will need to sell the house. It would probably be easier to pull off if you were living there.
Here's a thought. Assuming that she agrees that you cannot continue to afford the house regardless of your marital status, perhaps you should broach the subject of moving back in due to the need to start getting the place in shape for sale. Then you can work on being lovingly detached and start DB'ing more effectively.
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
