Originally Posted By: cemar2
bombardier50:

I might suggest that you read this article from Dr. Dobson about the critical reaction of the left behind spouse. He says that the reaction of the left behind spouse in affairs is going to determine the results.

Open the cage.

He has a book titled "Love Must Be Tough" that is all about infidelity.


As in ALL books/articles about marriage... there is no single approach or solution guaranteed to fit EVERY marriage in exactly the same way.
For anyone who reads the article, do note the following paragraph, contained in the article itself:

Quote:

Please understand that every situation is unique and I am merely describing typical reactions, but these developments are extremely common in families ....


(ie: "this wont work for everyone, but it is most commonly useful")

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle