I am a newbie here, almost one month into my separation and it seems like our situations are parellel. I actually registered on the site to see if I could help you out at all. I tried to send you a private message but it says you are over your limit. There are so many on these boards who give advice that have helped me get through this month. There is not a day that goes by that I am not faithfully reading these message boards and taking in all the information I can. You will survive. You are building your character and it is okay to hurt and cry. Jnutcurl
